shivery is v right on for chivalry tho. Shivery chivalry. I’m glad we kilt your antiquated misogynist moral code
Women do not have to follow a man’s dress code.
i feel it i do but rape isn’t caused by a ‘lack of self control’ and suggesting that it is does nothing but justify sexual violence. All abuse/violence is entirely calculated and deliberate, perpetrators are completely in control of their actions.
We are used to ignoring our own bodies. “These carrots are too spicy” we complained as a child, only to be told no, they were sweet, that the music wasn’t too loud, nobody can hear lights, what you are experiencing is invalid. We heard: you are invalid. You do not experience the world the same way as everyone else, and therefore, your experience is wrong. You learn to ignore the ever-present pain because nothing can be done about it, but then you have a kidney infection and others get mad at you for not noticing sooner. But why should you trust your body when it is always wrong?
This really, truly, deeply fucked me up for so fucking long.
It is probably the aspect that made reporting my rapist so hard (for so fucking long).
You are valid. I am valid. Our bodies & experiences are our own & real as fuck.
Basically lyk fux da h8rs, d0000000d.
TRY THE CREEPY GUY IN THE CORNER
—actual advice from a man (via clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead)
I told Ryan yesterday that Harry is Louise Belcher (she really really is! I want to get her some pink bunny ears) and he said Liam must be Tina then.
Liam does write erotic friend fiction.
For the image of the uniformed woman, gaining equality with men through the right to kill, is the image of what globalization can offer to us, which is the right to survive at the expense of other women and their children, whose countries and resources corporate capital needs to exploit.
A lot of dudes think women dress slutty for them, but honestly if men weren’t such fucking animals I would dress 300000% more slutty then I do now. You people ruin everything.
I wanna wear this shit outside god damn it.
Oh my god SO TRUE. I would constantly wear thigh highs and short skirts and underbust corsets because I look so fucking good. God forbid women like their OWN bodies, too.
For real !! like 90 % of my fucking wardrobe now is just for cam cause it’s too sexy to wear in public. Fucking bullshit. I use to wear thigh highs with garters with shorts a lot but I got sooo many comments. Fucking… people. You literally just saw the tops of my thighs. But all the dudes are like ‘Why wear that if you don’t want attention???’ cause i look fine as hell and I don’t give a shit about some fucking random broke ass dudes on the corner.
I can’t even express how much this describes my feelings. Bitch I wear my corsets and my fishnets and my heels the size you wish your dick was because they make me feel fucking fabulous, not because I want you to tell me how much you’d like to “smash” me.
Heels the size you wish your dick was.
This this a million times this
A few points from a male perspective on this. 1, if this is how you truly feel, act that way in the bar/club/social gathering. That means dont pay attention to the duche that makes cat calls, and thinks a few drinks is the admission cost to your panties, try spending time with the shy guy, that creepy stare might not be that creepy. 2, if your with a man that treats you that way, DUMP HIM, 3, once you dump the loser, go on a date with the “like a brother” thats always there for you. Hes probably just waiting for you to realize hes worth a chance, but doesnt want to pressure you about it.
Yall bitch about being treated like a piece of meat, untill you hit the bar and expect every man in there to buy you drinks cause you wiggled your ass. Make up your minds, and men will act accordingly.
If shivery is dead, its because women killed it.
What’s your advice for gay women who want to dress like that but don’t want to get creeped on by men? Do I also have an obligation to flirt with shy men who only seem creepy because of my biases? Do I have to have sex with friendzoned guys even though I’m gay? So I can wear sexy things in public without attracting unwanted male attention?
"A few points from a male perspective"
"Try the creepy guy in the corner"
"Try the nice guy"
"Women killed shivery"